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Post by FREEKANYE on Dec 29, 2017 11:13:36 GMT -5
I get that some of you are mad and dislike linger (and other posters) but being an ass hole to her/them doesn't solve the issue. I am not sure how many times its been said before but many of us have already said we are upset about what the OP did in the thread on the other board. It started unneeded drama. None of us (at least to my knowledge) know who that poster is. well, at least one of you definitely knows.
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Post by reginafelangy on Dec 29, 2017 11:22:01 GMT -5
I get that some of you are mad and dislike linger (and other posters) but being an ass hole to her/them doesn't solve the issue. I am not sure how many times its been said before but many of us have already said we are upset about what the OP did in the thread on the other board. It started unneeded drama. None of us (at least to my knowledge) know who that poster is. I am not sure how many times it's been said that lingerwhatever should own up to her shitty behavior and apologize to Rajah. Other posters have owned up to their complicit behavior in that dumpster fire of a Secret Santa thread and that they were wrong. However the Ring Leader is silent. Huh. Well how about that?
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Post by bunni512 on Dec 29, 2017 11:23:25 GMT -5
A more general comment about people not realizing others are struggling: nearly all of us are struggling with something at any given time. We have posters TTC. We have posters with physical conditions that affect their quality of life. We have posters with new babies. We have posters who have work issues. We have posters who have gotten divorced. We have posters who are soon to be married. Everyone deals with crap, so kindness should be the norm. I fully recognize that I am not always the nicest, kindest person, here or in real life, so I feel like a bit of a hypocrite standing up on my soapbox, so I will hop down now. This is where I fucked up. Instead of expressing empathy because we all deal with crap, I read the busy at work statement and took unnecessary offense because we all deal with crap. I reacted without considering anything else that might be going on, and that's not who I want to be. I am sorry Rajah. I wish you all the best.
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Post by snap on Dec 29, 2017 11:43:26 GMT -5
I will come back and respond to all of this when I have more than a minute, but Frenchie you can fuck right off. You got run off the board for not voting HRC because she was “just as bad as Trump.” In a swing state no less. And you were super fucking nonchalant about it because it doesn’t affect you personally. Until it did, and then you came here looking for support. You didn’t stop to think about the other members of this board who are WOC/have disabilities/etc. until it affected you/your family. I don’t particularly care if you choose to join that other board, but they should know what they’re getting into if they accept you. I did not get run off I made a terrible mistake Tried to apologize Was attacked via pm (just one poster) and received support via email <-- a lot I chose not to post I will decide when to post or not And your words of course hurt but it does reveal the vicious pitbull mentality that hurts this board Nice haiku
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Post by snippet17 on Dec 29, 2017 11:45:39 GMT -5
Can we know the story behind white wizard and trailer park boys? Trailer park boys. I have no clue. I think its a tv show. White wizard is from lotr.
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Post by snarkisthenewblack on Dec 29, 2017 11:56:02 GMT -5
Can we know the story behind white wizard and trailer park boys? Trailer park boys. I have no clue. I think its a tv show. White wizard is from lotr. I guessed it was a LOTR reference but it also comes off as Klanish.
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Post by snarkisthenewblack on Dec 29, 2017 11:58:15 GMT -5
Hello. I do not have pets. I do not wear backpacks.. Jansport was my brand when I used them. I have no clue about trailer park boys. It sounds like a tv show. I have no stripper pole as I am not Kris Jenner.
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Post by sarahbelle on Dec 29, 2017 12:30:28 GMT -5
LMC, the maid didn't make your marriage perfect because you don't have a boat. HTH!
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Post by eba1012 on Dec 29, 2017 12:34:07 GMT -5
LMC, the maid didn't make your marriage perfect because you don't have a boat. HTH! I just spit out my water lol
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Post by LMC on Dec 29, 2017 12:37:40 GMT -5
LMC, the maid didn't make your marriage perfect because you don't have a boat. HTH! Shit I don’t know how I forgot that I’d need a boat as well! I’ll never be as good as she is.
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Post by eba1012 on Dec 29, 2017 16:40:45 GMT -5
Just an FYI-if anyone messaged Rajah, she responded however you contacted her.
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Post by dirrtybutter on Dec 29, 2017 20:42:42 GMT -5
They came just to be dicks. Fuck all that. They came after someone from here went over there and was pretty much the same. That is a fair point.
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Post by shitstirrer on Jan 1, 2018 20:11:48 GMT -5
Part of the reason I'm unhappy about this is because when shitstirrer posted something racist (allegedly I didn't see it myself) the post was deleted and she wasn't banned. If there is going to be any line in the sand where someone gets unilaterally banned, it should be that one. sarahbelle, if a bear shits in the woods and you don't see it, do you still get upset that you might've stepped in it at some point even though you never go into the woods?
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Post by FREEKANYE on Jan 1, 2018 20:46:01 GMT -5
Part of the reason I'm unhappy about this is because when shitstirrer posted something racist (allegedly I didn't see it myself) the post was deleted and she wasn't banned. If there is going to be any line in the sand where someone gets unilaterally banned, it should be that one. sarahbelle, if a bear shits in the woods and you don't see it, do you still get upset that you might've stepped in it at some point even though you never go into the woods? Only if the bear is racist.
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Post by shitstirrer on Jan 1, 2018 21:30:06 GMT -5
sarahbelle, if a bear shits in the woods and you don't see it, do you still get upset that you might've stepped in it at some point even though you never go into the woods? Only if the bear is racist. well, if LINGERLONGER says so, it must be true. All hail queen linger!!!!
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Post by shitstirrer on Jan 1, 2018 21:51:59 GMT -5
sarahbelle, if a bear shits in the woods and you don't see it, do you still get upset that you might've stepped in it at some point even though you never go into the woods? Only if the bear is racist. well, if LINGERLONGER says so, it must be true. All hail queen linger!!!!
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