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Post by ktmac on May 11, 2015 10:57:45 GMT -5
Thanks for being my friends! My belly is achey. I had horrible lower back pain last night, but only on the right side. It was like someone was stepping on that side of my back. But it wasn't muscular, because attempting to rub the spot - I didn't even feel anything. Who knows. I just hate the idea of having another negative test. If I made it through today without spotting, I could probably POAS tomorrow. I would just be sad to have it be negative. I don't want to do it Wednesday or Thursday because I'm traveling for work overnight. If I WAS, I wouldn't want to find out Wednesday morning and then not see DH until late Thursday night.. and I definitely wouldn't want to find out in a hotel in Philadelphia by myself Thursday. So (assuming I don't start spotting) if I don't do it tomorrow I wouldn't until Friday. That's a long time away. ohh hellooooooooooooo I'll be your friend
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Post by ktmac on May 11, 2015 11:05:37 GMT -5
ohh hellooooooooooooo I'll be your friend I WANT THIS TO HAPPEN. I'll actually be in West Chester. No idea what time I'll end up getting there. I have to be at a thing for work at 8am and then straight back afterward on Thursday. I'll see what time I can get down there Wednesday. West Chester is even better! Depending on the timing. We actually have plans Wednesday night but let me know your schedule. ASSuming you wouldn't be able to do lunch on Thursday or something. But I AM available to time your pee stick! ;-)
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May 11, 2015 17:22:04 GMT -5
Post by snippet17 on May 11, 2015 17:22:04 GMT -5
CD 25. Period should be here either by the weekend or early next week. I started to temp, but I forgot to take it with me.
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May 12, 2015 10:20:53 GMT -5
Post by nsweare on May 12, 2015 10:20:53 GMT -5
I read an article the other day about pregnancy loss that said "it's God's plan" sounds an awful lot like "God doesn't want you to be a parent" and I agree. It is SO CONDESCENDING when people say that. Sorry you are having a rough time. That's exactly what I thought. I appreciate the "I'm praying for you" as coming from a nice place. But the "God works in mysterious ways" comments? So, God doesn't want me to have a baby? is that what you're saying? Those people can fuck right off. That sentiment makes me see actual red, it makes me so angry. So basically I need to sit around and hope your god deems me worthy of having a baby? Those people can take a long walk off a short cliff as far as I'm concerned.
I actually heard a lot of that after the miscarriage from H's family. I had to keep reminding myself that they meant well, only so I didn't completely lose my shit on them.
I'm sorry you're having a hard time LMC. I hope you get some answers soon. It's just seems so unfair.
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Post by Deleted on May 12, 2015 10:43:42 GMT -5
if I have to hear one more person say "It will happen when you stop thinking about it!" or WAY WORSE the "It's part of God's plan"/"It will happen when it's supposed to", I'm going to throw myself out of a window. Those people deserve a punch in the face. Seriously.
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May 12, 2015 16:20:58 GMT -5
Post by snippet17 on May 12, 2015 16:20:58 GMT -5
LMC - I wish I had more to say, but with me being out of town when I O'd it seems pointless to post. maybe I should start asking off the weekends before and after I am to O. I need to go to my obgyn soon for my annual, so I will see what she says and if she is willing to do anything for me yet. I hear the it is god's plan, etc. before too. Those people need to mind their damn business.
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Post by ktmac on May 13, 2015 7:17:44 GMT -5
I must have O'd late because still no sign of AF (well, except cramps and feeling like garbage). O'ing late really throws our timing out the window though, unless I was SUPER late, so this fact doesn't make me hopeful at all. I hope you O'd just late enough for your last BFN to be worthless
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Post by snippet17 on May 16, 2015 13:18:34 GMT -5
CD35. Still no sign of AF. Some extra CM which is gross. A few cramps but nothing serious. My temperature was high this morning but we went over to the neighbors last night and I had 3-4 beers so that's probably why. If my temp is high tomorrow I'll be testing again. I just want to know. Maybe your cycle is sadly synching with mine. :/ Af should be here for me this coming week.
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May 17, 2015 9:36:54 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on May 17, 2015 9:36:54 GMT -5
At what point do I call a doctor? Still no signs of her, another BFN. I'd call. You're in the midst of doing testing and your luteal phase has been consistent for months. This is an anomaly and I would call and mention it to your doctor. Worse comes to worse they say wait a few weeks - but they may ask you to come for bloodwork.
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May 17, 2015 11:49:10 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on May 17, 2015 11:49:10 GMT -5
What kind of tests are you using when you take pregnancy tests? The symptoms you're mentioning sound so much like signs of pregnancy!
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May 17, 2015 12:16:30 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on May 17, 2015 12:16:30 GMT -5
You're using the one with the actual lines...not the digital, right?
Digital tests require more HCG in your urine than the ones with the actual lines.
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May 17, 2015 12:17:07 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on May 17, 2015 12:17:07 GMT -5
You need to post pictures of your test so I can stare at them. LOL.
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Post by snippet17 on May 17, 2015 17:14:24 GMT -5
I agree with @jennylee everything I read said to wait to call the doctor intil it has been 60 with no BFP and AF doesn't show up.
I will try to pm you where a dollar tree is. Its the only one that I know of.
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May 18, 2015 12:49:58 GMT -5
Post by kristenkay on May 18, 2015 12:49:58 GMT -5
LMC crossing my fingers for you!
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