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Post by addie on Dec 21, 2015 10:01:11 GMT -5
I'm sorry all of this is such a struggle LMC! My husband was home during our window, so I'm hoping for a Christmas miracle this month. LOL I know how you feel, Susan. I want to be happy for friends and family who are having babies, but it can be very difficult. For me, it's a pisser b/c I have tons of former students OOOPS!!!ing all over the place. It's like, how do so many people get knocked up by mistake who are not nearly in a position to even be having babies, and then those of us who are set up nicely to start a family can't do it?
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Post by Deleted on Dec 21, 2015 10:22:12 GMT -5
LMC - would you be doing a cycle that includes a month of birth control pills and then down regulating with Lupron or another drug? If so - then perhaps you can start that portion even when you are waiting for your husband to get the SA?
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Post by snippet17 on Dec 21, 2015 12:00:45 GMT -5
@lmc0332 - can he go to another hospital for that test? How much more would it cost to check to see if an out of network hospital can schedule that test sooner? I sadly cannot think of any other in network hospitals for you that can provide that testing. I know the hospital I go to is out of network for you but they do provide that testing. addie - everything crossed for you. susanm - that is very frustrating and innoying that you have to deal with a sister like that.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 21, 2015 14:04:37 GMT -5
Oh susanm,, I'm so sorry to hear about your friend. That's so sad. T&Ps to them.
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Post by snippet17 on Dec 21, 2015 20:03:44 GMT -5
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Post by addie on Dec 22, 2015 8:17:06 GMT -5
Thanks, guys. Everything crossed for everyone! We need Oprah. You get a baby! And you get a baby! Prayers for your friend, susanm . Congrats entropicbeauty!
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Post by mrsELF6713 on Dec 22, 2015 19:02:16 GMT -5
glad you were able to get better results this time LMC. Fingers crossed for you!
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Post by gingerlady on Dec 22, 2015 20:11:36 GMT -5
I'm playing catch-up on these boards. So busy with Christmas stuff! Just wanted to say: entropicbeauty Congratulations! Also, I had zero early pregnancy symptoms and all is well. LMC I'm glad the rubella thing got sorted out with a repeat test! Good luck sorting through all the other tests. We all want you to get this party started! fingers crossed for all of you!
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Post by addie on Dec 27, 2015 12:11:19 GMT -5
Welp, no Christmas miracle here. Bah humbug.
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Post by snippet17 on Dec 27, 2015 12:53:00 GMT -5
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Post by annathy03 on Dec 27, 2015 12:56:18 GMT -5
I'm sorry addie, I was hoping for you guys.
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Post by addie on Dec 28, 2015 8:29:17 GMT -5
Thanks, guys. I had unusually high hopes this time for some reason, and my cramps the last couple days felt different, so I had myself pretty convinced it was implantation and not AF. Booh.
We are going to keep trying, but it's looking like my husband is going to be home and not working on the road much longer, so we are going to start the foster-to-adopt process. We couldn't move forward with that while he works on the road because of the interviews and classes and stuff, but now we can. After the failed IVF, our plan was to use an egg donor, and we had somewhat started that process, but it's just so expensive, and we decided we don't have that kind of money to spend AGAIN on a "maybe."
Remember my friend who is doing foster-to-adopt with the baby mama with all those kids in the system and who is pregnant again? My friend is getting that baby as soon as it is born as well. So we feel good about the possibilities with going this route.
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Post by gingerlady on Dec 28, 2015 8:39:37 GMT -5
That's awesome that you guys will be able to pursue foster-to-adopt addie! My brother and his wife have been doing this and they were just matched and should have a baby in April! (That's even earlier than I'm getting mine using the traditional method). I'm thrilled for them. Best wishes to you!
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Post by snippet17 on Dec 28, 2015 10:00:06 GMT -5
addie best of luck with fostering to adopt and I hope it goes well for you. I liked your post because of what you stated about your friend.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 28, 2015 10:18:49 GMT -5
Many hugs addie. I hope the foster to adopt process goes quickly! You're a great person for going that route and a child will be so lucky to join your family!!! Congrats entropicbeauty!
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